Community guidelines

The four rules

1. Consent comes first. A female-led dynamic is something two adults choose together. Advice that ignores consent, or pressures someone past a limit they have stated, is removed.
2. Keep it clothed. No explicit images or explicit content anywhere on TrueFLR — not in profile photos, private albums, messages or the forums.
3. No pitching or date requests in the forums. The forums are for learning, asking and sharing. To meet someone, use Discover and send a request.
4. Pseudonyms welcome. You post under a forum name that is separate from your dating profile. Never try to work out or reveal who is behind a forum name.

Respect and honesty

• No harassment. No insults, threats, slurs, stalking or repeated contact after someone has said no or stopped replying.
• No contact without consent. Conversations start when a request is accepted. Do not try to get around someone's settings to reach them.
• Be who you say you are. Use your own recent photos and your real age. You must be 18 or older. Misrepresenting your gender to get into a reply audience is reportable.
• Stay on topic. Post in the space that fits, and follow that space's rules about who can post and reply.

Money, solicitation and contact details

• No solicitation. No selling, advertising, or asking members for money, gifts or paid services.
• Financial domination must be declared. If findom is part of what you are looking for, you must say so when you set up your profile. Declared profiles carry a Findom tag and are hidden by default; each member decides whether to see them. Undeclared findom is treated as solicitation.
• No personal ads or contact details in public. Do not put phone numbers, social handles, email addresses or payment handles in requests or forum posts.

Meetups

• Meetups posted in Local & Meetups are in public venues only and are hosted by verified members.
• Nobody is owed your attendance, your number or a second meeting.

Member groups

Members can create private groups with their own membership and posting rules. Group owners moderate their own groups; these guidelines still apply inside them, and TrueFLR moderators can step in.

Report a profile or a post

You can report a profile, a photo, a request, a message or a forum post. Use the Report button on the profile, request, chat or post itself — that tells our moderators exactly what you are reporting. Reporting needs an account, so log in first.

When you report, you choose the closest reason:

• Fake profile or catfishing
• Undeclared findom or solicitation
• Harassment
• Explicit content
• Concern that someone is under 18
• Gender misrepresentation in a reply audience
• Something else

You can also block anyone. A block works both ways and takes effect immediately: it removes requests, private-album access and chats between the two of you. Blocking and reporting are free for every member, always.

If you believe someone is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.

What happens when a rule is broken

Moderators review reports and can remove content, warn, suspend or ban an account, depending on how serious the problem is and whether it has happened before.